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May 23, 2007 - Yahoo! Messanger Instant Message

Kaloy: nakakainis talaga
Kaloy: eto ishe-share ko
j: ok
j: ano?
Kaloy: naiinis ako sa mom ko
Kaloy: akala nya kasi lagi syang tama
Kaloy: at kapag sinasagot ko sya
Kaloy: ang naririnig lang nya
Kaloy: boses ko
Kaloy: hindi yung sagot ko
Kaloy: she never listens to what im saying
j: wag mo na awayin
j: respect her
j: she's still ur mom
Kaloy: all that she hears is that im disrespectful
Kaloy: but she doesnt hear what i say
Kaloy: its unfair
Kaloy: i need to voice out
Kaloy: thats what i am
Kaloy: i keep telling myself
Kaloy: sumosobra na ako
Kaloy: ang bastos ko talaga
Kaloy: pero sometimes
Kaloy: i think im the one who is right
Kaloy: because she never listens
Kaloy: she is narrow minded
Kaloy: sobra
j: COT
Kaloy: lagi kong sinasabi sa sarili ko
Kaloy: i should stop disrespecting her
j: COT
Kaloy: because its wrong
j: COT
Kaloy: ano yan>?
j: change of topic
Kaloy: uhm
Kaloy: hindi ba pwedeng maglabas ako ng sama ng loob?
j: pwede..
j: pero..
j: cge lang..
Kaloy: ano?
j: i'm uncomfortable with the topic
j: it rubs me the wrong way
Kaloy: i really need someone who could just listen
j: ok lang..
Kaloy: because i want it out
j: i'm here
j: listening
Kaloy: kasi
Kaloy: para kasing nagco-contradict ang personality namin ni momy e
Kaloy: hindi kami magkasundo
Kaloy: hindi talaga kami magkasundo
Kaloy: im always hard headed when it comes to her
Kaloy: hot headed din
j: hehe
Kaloy: nagka-clash kami ni momy lagi
Kaloy: i am aware naman
Kaloy: that what she wants is the best
Kaloy: yadi yadi ya
j: it's yada
Kaloy: but shes not always right
j: yada yada
j: hehe
Kaloy: i typed it the way i though of it
j: haha
Kaloy: thought
j: funny
Kaloy: anyways
Kaloy: she is not always right
Kaloy: and she doesnt see it
Kaloy: because she is narrow minded
Kaloy: hay naku
Kaloy: kakain na kami
j: hehe
Kaloy: i will be right back
j: will u be back?
j: ok
Kaloy: yes

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Kaloy: pero i think
Kaloy: you know what
Kaloy: she is also poisoning the mind of my dad
j: hehe
Kaloy: kasi my dad doesnt like me talking to the phone, in general
j: it's pathetic.. sorry for the term
Kaloy: tapos my mom would say na its you who im talking to
Kaloy: tapos walang kwenta daw ang pinaguusapan
j: tss
Kaloy: ang pinaguusapan ay ung kung ano ang pinapanood sa tv
j: pssssh
j: psssh
j: tsssssss
Kaloy: tawanan lang ng tawanan daw
Kaloy: armpf
j: hehe
Kaloy: kainis
Kaloy: unreasonable
j: well..
j: to be honest.
Kaloy: matanda na kasi
j: when i look at this situation
j: i always regret that i chose bene
j: to go to highschool
j: i miss my friends back in grade school
j: kahit na di ako ganun ka kilala dun.
j: ???
j: pero..
j: di ko naman kayo makikilala
j: which is far worse
Kaloy: yeah
Kaloy: everything happens for a reason
Kaloy: to be honest
Kaloy: i dont know what will make me and my mom closer
Kaloy: she tried to bribe me with going out to the mall
Kaloy: i mean not really bribe
j: strategy
Kaloy: she tried to get to me by going to the mall
Kaloy: movie
Kaloy: grocery
Kaloy: eat good food
Kaloy: shop for what i want
Kaloy: she tried it
Kaloy: but she just doesnt see that its not what i want
Kaloy: i dont want to be happy by means of material things
j: hehe..
Kaloy: because it would only make me more lonely
j: ok lang yan
Kaloy: it would make me feeel bad about myself
Kaloy: im not into material things
j: hehe
Kaloy: i just want a mom who would listen
j: that's ggod
j: good
Kaloy: a mom that is open
Kaloy: open-minded
Kaloy: a mom that would not always insists what she wants
Kaloy: insist
j: that's ok
Kaloy: un lang talaga
Kaloy:
j: ako naman miss ko talaga ung mems nung bata pa ako
j: kasi..
j: nung gradeschool ako..
j: di ko pa nashare
Kaloy: wait lang
Kaloy: di pa ako tapos
Kaloy: hehe
j: ok
Kaloy: di nya ata napapansin
Kaloy: im not talking to her
Kaloy: no really
Kaloy: i dont initiate conversations with her
Kaloy: i dont like to talk to her
Kaloy: kasi it would always turn out na ako ang mali
Kaloy: na may mali ako
Kaloy: na may tama sya
j: aww
j: tsk tsk
Kaloy: i dont like to talk to her talaga
Kaloy: kasi
Kaloy: iinit lang ulo ko
j: onga..
Kaloy: kasi she wouldnt listen naman e
j: lagi sa phone
Kaloy: she would not listen to me
Kaloy: wat u mean>
Kaloy: lagi sa phone?
j: nagaaway kayo
j: walang matinong conversation
Kaloy: she always insists what she wants
Kaloy: she doesnt listen to the message of my words
Kaloy: when i raise my voice
Kaloy: what she knows
Kaloy: it that i raised my voice
Kaloy: she did not hear what i said
Kaloy: gets mo?
j: tr to understand
j: try
Kaloy: i am trying talaga
Kaloy: so hard
j: well
Kaloy: as in
Kaloy: sa isip ko
Kaloy: pinapagalitan ko sarili ko
j: in time
j: everything will fall into place
Kaloy: im asking from God the help
Kaloy: na hindi ako magtaas ng boses
Kaloy: na hindi ko sya mabastos
Kaloy: im asking God to help me
Kaloy: pero nothing happens
j: that's ok
Kaloy: sa hapagkainan
Kaloy: i dont talk to her
Kaloy: when she asks me something
Kaloy: di ko sya sinasagot ng mahusay
Kaloy: grabe
Kaloy: gusto ko talagang umiyak
Kaloy: tapos she tells my dad
Kaloy: lagi ko syang binabastos
Kaloy: eh yun lang ang alam nya
Kaloy: she doesnt figure out what is behind my behavior
Kaloy: sa totoo lang
Kaloy: nasaktan ako
Kaloy: nung lumabas kami sa SM para magpasarap
Kaloy: kasi before nun
Kaloy: away kami
j: ano
Kaloy: tapos nung nagkaron ng days na ok kami
Kaloy: saka nya ako tinreat sa SM
Kaloy: ano yun
Kaloy: material rewards
j: no
Kaloy: i dont need it
Kaloy: ano un>
Kaloy: ?
j: that's the only wa she can show that she's sorry
Kaloy: hindi
Kaloy: wait
Kaloy: eto kasi
Kaloy: after
Kaloy: after nung lumabas kami to S<
Kaloy: SM
Kaloy: away ulit kami
Kaloy: tapos sabi nya
j: bakit?
Kaloy: ano pa ba gusto mo
j: ouch
Kaloy: pinanood na kita ng sine
j: onga noh
Kaloy: pinakain na kita
Kaloy: tapos ganyan ka pa rin
j: parng ang dating sumbat
Kaloy: sabi nya
Kaloy: masakit un sobra
j: why..
Kaloy: parang pinapamukha nya sa akin na hanggang material things lang ako
j: maybe ur mom has no outlet of her deep anger
j: she's sullen
j: alam mo na
Kaloy: whats why i would rather spend most of my day with an inanimate object like the computer, at nalilihis ang isip ko sa mga problema, than to talk to her
Kaloy: para walang away
Kaloy: what u mean sullen?
Kaloy: ?
j: uhh..
j: show irritation
Kaloy: so
Kaloy: what were u trying to say?
Kaloy: hindi no nagets
Kaloy: ko
j: she keeps it inside
j: so..
j: na tratranslate ung anger nya into other stuff
j: such as his relationship to you
j: to the way things are inside the house
j: basically everything
Kaloy: such as pagaayos ng bahay
Kaloy: paglilinis
Kaloy: pagdidilig
j: it may be true
j: yes
Kaloy: wala akong nakikitang efforts from her
j: simple things turn out to be complicated
Kaloy: to get close to me
j: maybe she's overboard
Kaloy: yes lagi lagi nyang pinapalaki ang mga maliliit na bagay
Kaloy: so true
Kaloy: i gues
Kaloy: you have a point
Kaloy: you may be true
Kaloy: eh ano ang galit nya?
j: yeah
Kaloy: hindi ko alam kung san galing ang galit nya
j: that's the question
j: maybe she realized something true
j: and it really bruised her
j: i'm no saying that she does...
j: pero baka.. meron din syang angry girl disease
j: alam mo un?
j: hehe
j: funny
Kaloy: no
j: meron din sa lalaki nun eh
j: di ko alam tawag
Kaloy: tsaka to be honest
j: rage something ata
Kaloy: kaya din ganito ang pagiisip ko
Kaloy: kasi hangang ngayon
Kaloy: traumatized pa rin ako
Kaloy: sa nangyari sa summer job ko
Kaloy: last year
Kaloy: remember?
j: huh?
Kaloy: yung narinig ko yung phone call ng drunk dad ko with another woman he has an affair with
Kaloy: na-trauma ako
Kaloy: emotionally
Kaloy: hanggang ngayon
j: dunn that
Kaloy: may galit pa rin ako
j: dunno
Kaloy: oh i guess i did not tell that to yo
j: aww
Kaloy: galit pa rin ako
Kaloy: that was the worst moment in my life
Kaloy: at dinadamdam ko sya hangang ngayon

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